We are now living in a world of girl-shaming. From the terminology of your great Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, i tell girls so you can compress by themselves, therefore we tell them that it’s not ok to explore its sexuality. I shame girls getting doing something they’re not supposed to – particularly playing an activity that has been in the first place ruled because of the dudes, not dedicating the free-time in order to tresses removal, otherwise preference otherwise exploring sex. Can we guilt boys for the ones things? I do believe maybe not.
I have already been doing some thinking about the term “ho.” I have never liked they. I have never ever, on my degree, called people, male or female, of the one to word. Yet again I live in a virtually all-feminine quarters hall (the base floor, anyway), I’m hanging out with girls of different locations and different experiences, and i also reach wonder what they considered the definition of “ho” – especially after i read one of my buddies name a great girl one when you find yourself informing myself a narrative. Continue Reading…